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![]() Four Questions to Inner Peace By JEFFREY RESSNER Two chairs face each other on a stage, separated by a table filled with sunflowers, candles and a box of tissues to catch any tears. In one chair sits a member of the audience; in the other, Byron Katie, 58, a divorced grandmother with white hair and sparkling blue eyes. In sessions of her popular self-awareness program, called simply the Work, the charismatic Katie acts as a combination mystical guide, wisecracking therapist and knowing parent. To whatever is upsetting a person—"My husband doesn't
understand me," for example—Katie poses four questions: Is your problem
true? Can you really know it's true? Can you find a peaceful reason to
believe it? Who would you be without it? Then, through a technique she
calls the turnaround, Katie coaxes the person to look inside rather than
outside for the solution. "He should understand me," for example, may
become, "I should understand him and myself." A woman at this evening's
session gripes that her sister is holier than thou but discovers that she
is doing the same thing. Subjective judgments are vigorously challenged,
seen as personal "projections" or "stories." While the Work proceeds, two
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PHOTOS: Virgilio Elizondo by DANNY TURNER FOR TIME, T.D. Jakes by THOMAS MICHAEL ALLEMAN FOR TIME, Byron Katie by ISABEL SNYDER FOR TIME, Tariq Ramadan by SERGE PICARD‹VU FOR TIME, Steve Waldman by JOSEPH PLUCHINO FOR TIME, Jan Willis by CATRINA GENOVESE FOR TIME |
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